In this video I give an encouraging word to Christian Singles on the Question they are asking, Have I Missed The Boat?
Vicki Yohe has just confessed to a sexual relationship with David E. Taylor. Hearing her story and hearing her heart made me think of what God wanted me to write about in the book God Send Me My Husband. So in this video I discuss a little about desperation, waiting, and the hedge of protection that God has around single women in light of Vicki Yohe’s confession.
I know how you’re feeling because I was in your shoes. There was a time where I was searching for love and waiting on God to move now and send me my husband. I tried the dating sites, dating unsaved men, and came to a point where I had to stop and get guidance from God before I ended up in place I didn’t want to be in.
So, before you do anything and before you go on Christian Mingle or search for 100 free Christian dating sites, you need to read this book, God Send Me My Husband. You also need to make sure you’re not like the character, Lailah, who is ready to give up everything for love because you’re tired of the wait.
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Follow a very naive christian singles story from Lailah as she learns the dangers of not waiting on God for a husband…
Meet Lailah, a woman in her thirties that is struggling with singleness, insecurities, and being angry with God for being single. After going to an old boyfriend’s wedding and seeing his new relationship and having bad relationships of her own, she’s faced with being desperate and depressed about being single for so long. She desperately wants God to step in now and answer her dear future husband prayers but waiting for Him to move is just taking too long.
After waiting on God for so long, she decides to take control and matters into her own hands. She’s not getting any younger and desperately wants to experience the beauty of marriage. She will do anything to be a wife, be in a healthy Christian romance, and find the love and respect she desires even if it means leaving her faith behind.
What will come of Lailah as she decides to do her own thing without God? Will she get all of what she desires and live happily ever after? Will she allow God to be her Christian matchmaker or will she get the devil in disguise who lies and leads her astray?
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Short sweet and simple. Maybe I’ll expound more later:
Some people look at a man for his bank account, job status/professional career, clothes he wears, car he drives and more. All that doesn’t really matter. What matters most is his life/relationship with Christ. I know if he is leading me to Christ all that will take care of itself. The greatest thing a man can do for a woman is lead her closer to God than himself or the things he has.
We as a society are so focused on looks. If he doesn’t look like something we throw him aside & vice versa. Due to social media & the times we live in, we are visual people and never look at the heart anymore.
The last couple of days God has been saying one thing over & over again: “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. 👉🏾👉🏾The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” 👈🏾👈🏾 1 Samuel 16:7
I know a number of women who have turned down GREAT GODLY men (men do the same to women too) all because that man doesn’t look like their ideal man. He’s to short, fat, he’s a nerd, can’t dress, doesn’t have muscles, no abs, bank account isn’t 6 figures, doesn’t wear the right shoes, doesn’t have a nice car, etc. Think of the things you’ve said about certain men 🤔.
Welp..it’s time to look at the heart. Some of you are missing out on something good. Some of you are probably asking, “What am I still single or why am I single? This could be the reason why. I even hear God say: I sent him to you already but you rejected him because he didn’t have or look like what you thought he should have or look like. I can guarantee when you change your mindset and get the mindset of what God wants for you, you’re going to get the greatest surprise ever. That delay in marriage will end.
I just saw this in the Spirit: One of you just turned down a millionaire yesterday. You won’t believe it but some millionaires wear the same clothes everyday or drive in that beat up chevy and you turned him down. Smh🤦🏾♀️…all because he didn’t look the way you thought he should look😮. All because he wasn’t packaged the way you wanted him to be packaged.
You really should be looking at what does God want? Again, look at a person’s heart. ❤️❤️ Be open today. As always use discernment and hear what God says to do.
Disclaimer: I am NOT saying to settle. What I am saying is check your heart attitude. Sometimes the godly right Christian man you think isn’t the one could be the one but as always consult with God.
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Sometimes we think because it’s not here when we want it to be, it’s been denied. That’s totally not true. Habakkuk 2:3 says in The Amplified Bible: “For the vision is yet for the appointed [future] time. It hurries toward the goal [of fulfillment]; it will not fail. Even though it delays, wait [patiently] for it, Because it will certainly come; it will not delay.”
If it seems slow don’t despair. This is in reference to every area of our lives..husband, finances, success, etc. A very long delay doesn’t mean God doesn’t want you to have it. Like I always say there’s a reason for the wait—to prepare you, to get you ready, to develop character, 👉🏾👉🏾to make you appreciate it more👈🏾👈🏾, etc. The enemy wants you to think God has denied you. It’s not true & don’t believe it. The enemy just wants to make you fall & abort the promises of God by filling you w/ doubt and have you give up on what God promised u. You’re so close, don’t give up now. You need to remember that God has heard your prayer and it’s on the way. You haven’t been denied. Have faith you’re next.
Even in my own life I’ve had a lot of delay. I mean ALOT. There are still things that are delayed but I still hope in God. I know it’s coming. I know the delay is also for my good and the good of my family. Like I posted months ago from Luke 1:45 “Blessed is she who believed, for there will be a fulfillment of those things which were told her from the Lord.” I know & believe it will be fulfilled & so I wait patiently. I wait in excitement. You have to do the same. There are reasons to a delay but whatever the reason know it’s coming. Know God has it for u. Don’t let the enemy or anyone else for that matter tell u otherwise.
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